Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi
Dono cheezein hogi Jean😆
They will talk, they'll rant and have a emotional reunion. Neither can I tolerate this now. Getting on my nerves!
My dad not talking to me for a couple of hours drives me me crazy, I can't imagine being in her place. OMG!
Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26
That’s what I am saying. I don’t think Babita’s role can ever be replaced or even lessened in Minnie’s life. Minnie’s life can truly be enhanced, even complete with HS’s addition because he can truly fulfill that father’s role and responsibility that Minnie didn’t experience growing up. Babita, however will always be the most important person in Minnie’s life even if she were to accept HS fully as a father. I don’t think he will ever come before in her life, equal maybe but not before Babita for sure.
I want the tension to release too and HS and Minnie to be like how they were before.
I think it's fine if he eventually equals Babita in importance in her life, whatever that means, and doesn't need to exceed it. Or if he does, then I wouldn't be surprised but perhaps the story will never go that far. It's actually healthy for Minnie to love both parents differently as they each give her something different.
HS didn't just give her love and protection, he completely changed the way she views the world, which at her age is a big deal. She idolizes him and hero worships him without the father aspect and that is something she has never found with anyone else and never will. She has grown up with Babita, and HS cannot make up for the 17 years of her life that he missed out on, but he can shape it going forward if he can and will remain in it.
We will see Babita mature and become independent, but there are some things about her basic character that will never change. Minnie and she say they are best friends, but we have seen that they are not quite that. There is a toxic interdependence and sometimes simply the fact that they are used to each other means they cannot be friends. She is confused right now and her diary writing says a lot about this.
Unless the CVs take a drastically new direction with her character, I don't see her ever being able to guide Minnie as a parent the way HS can. It would seem very weird if she suddenly starts behaving like HS in terms of guidance and wisdom. Likewise, no matter how much HS and Minnie bond over their shared pain which Babita is not privy too, he doesn't share her experiences for the past 17 years that Babita does.
This is why I feel that Minnie should have both of them permanently in her life, but I'm not sure if the writers will go that way. They could very well pull the rug from under her (and our) feet by keeping HS limited to being her mother's husband at the end of the day and have them living with this sense of incompleteness, maybe even growing apart over time.
My dad not talking to me for a couple of hours drives me me crazy, I can't imagine being in her place. OMG!
Exactly it's so painful...the thought of hurtingbthem pains us here she unknowingly have hurt imagine her trauma... The person on whom she used say all day wants and gossips is not talking to her or I say both are afraid to start conversation...their silence is killing me too...
But Friday the last bit when Babita goes upstairs have u observed how HS was seeing Minni it was like he wants to know what's going on in her mind....
Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi
Yeah yeah. Its foolish to think anyone on Earth can preceed Babita for Mini. Anyways, a mother is first for any child. No matter what. HS will only fulfill the role of a father that's lying empty till now. Babita is the most important, she's a mom but she can't be a father. That's what Jean was saying, HS can't be a Babita for Mini nor can Babita be a HS for her. Both are equal and first for her. We can never choose between our parents can we?
Exactly. I know they're coming out only strong out of this but kab aayenge bahar from this loop?
Thanks, that's exactly what I was trying to say. Having only one of them leaves her life imbalanced and both of them will complete her life if things work out. Kids need both parents for a reason and in Minnie's case she may or may not love them equally. The switching teams scene was there for a reason, the fact that her always having been on Babita's team will be challenged at some point.
As for whether Babita will always be first for her in the long run, I can't answer that, only the writers can. If they go back to their sane and realistic ways and continue to build HS and Minnie's relationship, then I expect some kind of mirroring on Minnie's part of the hospital scene where he told her that she was first for him.
I think it's fine if he eventually equals Babita in importance in her life, whatever that means, and doesn't need to exceed it. It's actually healthy for Minnie to love both parents differently as they each give her something different.
He didn't just give her love and protection, he completely changed the way she views the world, which at her age is a big deal. She idolizes him and hero worships him without the father aspect and that is something she has never found with anyone else and may never will. She has grown up with Babita, and HS cannot make up for the 17 years of her life that he missed out on, but he can shape it going forward if he can and will remain in it.
We will see Babita mature and become independent, but there are some things about her basic character that will never change. Minnie and she say they are best friends, but we have seen that they are not quite that. There is a toxic interdependence and sometimes simply the fact that they are used to each other means they cannot be friends. She is confused write now and her diary writing says a lot about this.
Unless the CVs take a drastically new direction with her character, I don't see her ever being able to guide Minnie as a parent the way HS can. It would seem very weird if she suddenly starts behaving like HS in terms of guidance and wisdom. Likewise, no matter how much HS and Minnie bond over their shared pain which Babita is not privy too, he doesn't share her experiences for the past 17 years that Babita does.
This is why I feel that Minnie should have both of them permanently in her life, but I'm not sure if the writers will go that way. They could very well pull the rug from under her (and our) feet by keeping HS limited to being her mother's husband at the end of the day and have them living with this sense of incompleteness, maybe even growing apart over time.
@bold... Please don't say like that yaar... I hope they won't do this....
Originally posted by: porankisrilata
Exactly it's so painful...the thought of hurtingbthem pains us here she unknowingly have hurt imagine her trauma... The person on whom she used say all day wants and gossips is not talking to her or I say both are afraid to start conversation...their silence is killing me too...
But Friday the last bit when Babita goes upstairs have u observed how HS was seeing Minni it was like he wants to know what's going on in her mind....
Yes, he's looking for any opening, any sign that his Veer Balika still cares about him or wants him in her life. He is afraid to do anything to upset her or himself further. Where once they were able to talk to each other directly about anything there is this glass wall between them.
Originally posted by: porankisrilata
@bold... Please don't say like that yaar... I hope they won't do this....
After the CD fiasco and HS' out of character reaction, I won't be surprised by anything. The way the two are behaving if you just joined the show you'd think she's just recently met her mother's husband and that he is indeed just legally her stepdad, nothing more.
I really really want them to talk.... They are behaving like they have met for the first time.... Nooo... I want them back... Miss them so much..... 😒
Yes, he's looking for any opening, any sign that his Veer Balika still cares about him or wants him in her life. He is afraid to do anything to upset her or himself further. Where once they were able to talk to each other directly about anything there is this glass wall between them.
Yeah... One sign from any of them the next second the wall will break I am sure....
After the CD fiasco and HS' out of character reaction, I won't be surprised by anything. The way the two are behaving if you just joined the show you'd think she's just recently met her mother's husband and that he is indeed just legally her stepdad, nothing more.
Yeah I know the recent outputs are such but I don't think they Will keep then hanuman uncle and his veer balika... They will. Slowly transform to baap beti in true sense... For sure...
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