Originally posted by: shirin04
@bold- this is exactly what is wrong with pari fans. This is not a personal attack on you but rather this overall idea that you have pronounced here. Lets take out the times when pari was in trouble and rajeev had to save her. You still have ample of clips of them romancing, dancing and hugging which would qualify as romance not orchestrated by neeti. Should pari and rajeev refuse to take accountability for their individual actions? Exactly when did neeti push rajeev and pari to dance or when did neeti tell pari to observe KC for her? She didnāt pari and rajeev and some pariraj fans have romanticised their relationship as some long lost lovers which they are not.
Caring for his first wife?????? Are you seriously saying rajeev is in his rights to care for his first wife while simultaneously having a full fledged marital life with neeti? Does this not sound convoluted? Kalko mein kisi aur admi se shadi krungi and care karungi but mere pati ko problem nh honi chahiye iss care se because i have legally married that person.
Which serial do you watch? Where has it been said that pari will leave once the baby is born?? When neeti put up that condition that pari has to go- did anyone pari, rajeev or the family ever even once say that once pari delivers the baby she will leave? I am sorry i will go by the actual serial over the fictitious version pari fans have made in their head.
@red - did I seriously just read that first line? Because rajeev slept with neeti he has done nothing wrong to her? Also bebe came much later and pariraj had been doing their shenanigans way before neeti came to know anything so none of this points true. I agree bebe has misguided neeti but had pariraj kept their hands to themselves and had pari tried to not be so overtly concerned about rajeev would bebe have any fodder to give to neeti. Is it not true that the closeness of pariraj can be misconstrued ( I would argue rightly construed) by any person in their right thinking mind.
If the marriage broke due to her anger did the marriage also not break due to rajeevās selfishness, ego and his desire to not be called out for his romance with pari. Are we going to absolve rajeev and his disgusting behaviour and put the blame on neeti only?
@bold- only mistakw? How about not dancing with him in front of neeti? How about not crying on his shoulder ? How about actually enforcing some boundaries with him for a change? How about leaving the house because your best friendās marriage is breaking directly or indirectly because of you? How about not saying yes to the marriage 2 days after your best friendās divorce? How about not being the surrogate of your husband and your best friendās life?Should this amd more be considered her good decisions?
Are we seriously going to count who lost more now? Making it a competition as to who is the bigger victim? And what is the prize for this victim- rajeev?
@bold- nobody told pari to stay and watch their romance? And didnt she herself bring neeti to the house? So she didnāt need to stay and endure their romance. Sacrifice krna tha mahaan atma ko toh pura karti na.
You are right there is one set of rules for neeti and one set for pari. Pari gets to play the victim while getting married to neetiās husband, and romancing him openly while neeti calling out the family and rajeev and pari for their misplaced expectations for her to accept this is termed to be an egotistical.
Neeti is a criminal but pari is also an enabler, a pick-me , a manipulative sleazy person who also committed fraud. Both things can be true at once. If neeti is judged by her actions why is pari judged by her words?
I refuse to engage with pariraj fans anylonger because i might lose braincells.
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