So many new information one finds out when one comes to the forum . Stuffs that are not even in the show and exists only in the alternate reality of fan's minds.
The latest one is Ansh and Ruby's marriage is invalid because -
1. Absence of the priest !!!! - Woww , so age old rituals like applying sindur on hair parting , exchange of garlands , saath phera around the havaan kund , tying Mangalsutra , gaath bandhan etc. doesn't matter ?? Doesn't count ?? Ohhkay .
Most of the marriages that happens or happened in ITV happens with even lesser rituals and they still count as valid.
And not only in ITV , in movies too , like Kayamat se kayamar tak , Bajirao mastani , Ram Leela etc. etc. lead couples got married with not even so much rituals and of course , in the complete absence of priests and still it's valid.
Are we talking about legalizing of the marriage ?? LOl. Marriage rituals have absolutely nothing got to do with legal status of the marriage .
As a matter of fact , they can simply sign on the papers and they're completely valid married couple without performing a single rituals. These rituals are for validation from God , or to be honest and brutally practical for the benefit of the society and family , to conform with the set standards of societal norms.
2. This marriage has been done against Ansh's wish !! 😲 Is there another Nazar going on in some parallel universe that some people are watching ?? 😕
Sigh ! Ok, let's try.
Ansh did give consent for this marriage and that too in full consciousness. Albeit with some reluctance . ( That's beside the point , validity of a marriage depends on a person's consent , not on his / her state of mind . Since we are talking about technicalities here. ). That too with not too much reluctance I can safely say, because let's not forget Ruby is / was Ansh's girlfriend and he id like her before Pia's entry in his life. GOing by how easily he accepted this marriage , how calmly , completely, minus any resistance , revolt or rebel and with a kind of quick and ready shouldering of his spousal responsibilities ( spousal responsibility is not just sex ) , how instantly he gets into husband mode to protect and care for Ruby ( it's like every time he holds her protectively and speak on her defense whenever Ruby is questioned , with a firm protest against her insult. Please go and watch the two episodes and listen to his dialogs and actions. )
There's a HUGE difference between an event being performed against one's wish and one done without one's memory.
In fact , so many words are not even needed . Had this marriage been done against his consent , Ansh wouldn't have accepted his marriage with Ruby so easily and instantly. Jab Ansh ne shadi ko man liya hai , jab use koi dikkat nehi , tab kisi aur ko kya haq hai ye kehena ki - marriage is not valid ??? 😆
It's like a girl having physical intimacy with a man , and every one yelling it's been forced on her when the girl herself considers it consensual ! Only that girl has got any say in it. It's no body's business otherwise unless she says so.
Last but not the least , each and every family member , including Vedashree who knows best when a marriage is valid and when not and who's well aware of every detail of this marriage , like absence of priest and Ansh being in DC , keeps chanting " Ab to uski biwi bhi ek dayan hai.. " , " Meine teri shadi ek dayan se kara di. "
Not for a single time Ved said this marriage doesn't hold , or it doesn't count. Which at least proves that she's less delusional than the fan groups. 😆 She's desperate to cast Ruby out and wouldn't it have been the easiest thing to do to just declare or at least consider this marriage null or void ?? But no , that's not possible because that wouldn't be true and who knows that better than Ved. 😆 She knows that she couldn't cancel the marriage , as much as she may want , and therein lies her distress.
Ansh doesn't remember the rituals yet he knows and accepts that he's married because he's educated enough and have common sense enough to understand that since he's given consent for the marriage and he's done it , the marriage holds.
Now , if this marriage was an invalid one Ved wouldn't have been so distressed . She knows that what has been done is done. Ruby is Ansh's wife. End of the story . Ansh can of course get married again , why he can get married 100 more times , kis ne roka hai. And none of that could take away the fact that Ruby is / was/ will always remain his 1st wife. And in the context of a show like Nazar , where rituals held utmost importance , each and every of these age old valued rituals have binding effect that binds a couple together for not just this birth , but 6 next births as well.
Really , the amount of kuch bhi some people speaks to conceal or comfort their growing insecurities makes my head go
Edited by Carmilla - 6 years ago
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