TOTW #9: Infidelity - Page 7

In this Marathi lāvaṇī, a married woman assures her paramour that she will find a way to keep their affair going.

Song: Nāndāyā Zāte, Khuśālīta Rhāvā

Singer: Saroj Borkar

Movie: Jaya Malhāra (1947)

Actor: Saroj Borkar

Lyricist: Gajanan Digambar Madgulkar

Music: Unknown

The song and dance are in the movie at the 9:40 mark.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CZiM9hBv91I

Lyrics

नांदाया जाते, खुशालीत ऱ्हावा

देते वळख, या माझ्या गांवा

Nāndāyā zāte, khuśālīta rhāvā

Dete vaḷakha, yā mājhyā gāṃvā

I'm going to cohabitate; you stay safe!

I'll give a signal; come to my town

मी हो सासरी जाते

महिना पंधरा दिं राहते

तिथला अंदाज घेते

चवल्या पावल्या मी चोरून साठवीन

जरूरीचं पत्र तुम्हां पाठवीन

Mī ho sāsarī zāte

Mahinā pandharā diṃ rāhate

Tithalā andāza ghete

Çavalyā pāvalyā mī çorūna sāṭhavīna

Zarūrīçaṃ patra tumhāṃ pāṭhavīna

I'm going to my in-laws' place

I'll stay a month or fifteen days

Assess (my husband's attention) there

Dimes and quarters I'll pilfer and save

With urgency I'll send you a letter

माझ्या हरणीच्या मृगा

एक एक हुशारी बघा

नाही देणार जागा

Mājhyā haraṇīcyā mṛgā

Eka eka huśārī baghā

Nāhī deṇāra zāgā

Oh stag to my doe!

One by one, watch my clever moves

I won't give an inch

Is it infidelity when the relationship with one's crush was entirely a fantasy? Anyway, Baja seriously feels betrayed when Champa leaves town.

Song: Māzhaṃ Ṭharalyālaṃ Lagīna Moḍalaṃ

Singer: Vasant Deshpande

Movie: Mānāçaṃ Pāna (1949)

Actor: Vasant Shinde

Lyricist: Gajanan Digambar Madgulkar

Music: Purushottam Lakshman Deshpande

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Pa1cdzNCJI

The song is at the 1 hour 34 minutes mark in the movie:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lsPWP7XrlKw

Lyrics

कुणासाठी सखे तू घरदार सोडलं

माझं ठरल्यालं लगीन मोडलं

Kuṇāsāṭhī sakhe tū gharadāra soḍalaṃ

Māzhaṃ ṭharalyālaṃ lagīna moḍalaṃ

For whom, girlfriend, did you leave house and home?

My fixed marriage engagement was broken off!

बाळपणापासून तुमचा-आमचा मैतरपणा

संगतीनं सूर-पारंबी खेळलो, केला लई हूडपणा

वय वाढता, वाढता, वाढता, पटल्या पिरतीच्या खुणा

अन् आज कसं येड्यावाणी जाणंयेणं सोडलं

Bāḷapaṇāpāsūna tumaçā-āmaçā maitarapaṇā

Saṃgatīnaṃ sūra-pārambī kheḷalo, kelā laī hūḍapaṇā

Vaya vāḍhatā, vāḍhatā, vāḍhatā, paṭalyā piratīcyā khuṇā

An āza kasaṃ yeḍyāvāṇī zāṇaṃyeṇaṃ soḍalaṃ

Since childhood, you and I had steady friendship

Together played swing-aerial-root, did lots of naughtiness

Getting older, older, older, reciprocated love's signals

And today, like mad, how did you quit coming and going?

आंबेराईतल्या शम्भुमहादेवाच्या देवळात

तुमचं-आमचं काय काय बोलणं झालं होतं

दिला बोल, इसरला हातोहात, हातोहात

अन् आज कसं भलत्याशी नातं तुम्ही जोडलं

Āmbe-rāītalyā Śambhu-Mahādevācyā devaḷāta

Tumaçaṃ-āmaçaṃ kāya kāya bolaṇaṃ zhālaṃ hotaṃ

Dilā bola, isaralā hātohāta, hātohāta

An āza kasaṃ bhalatyāśī nātaṃ tumhī zoḍalaṃ

In the mango grove's shrine of Śambhu Mahādeva

You and I had talked about this and that plan

Gave your promise, and forgot out of hand, out of hand

And today, how did you connect a relation with just anyone?

तुम्ही पाच पंच न्याय करा, चावडीम्होरं

इश्वासघाताची फिर्याद करतो मी सादर

हिनं माझं पार डुबिवलं घरदार, घरदार

हिनं चालत्या गाडीचं चाक की हो काढलं

Tumhī pāça pañca nyāya karā, çāvaḍīmhoraṃ

Iśvāsa-ghātācī phiryāda karato mī sādara

Hinaṃ māzhaṃ pāra ḍubivalaṃ gharadāra, gharadāra

Hinaṃ çālatyā gāḍīçaṃ çāka kī ho kāḍhalaṃ

You five of the council-quintet grant justice! Before the town hall

I respectfully submit a complaint of breach of trust

She has entirely sunk my house and home, house and home

From a moving cart, you see, she just took off a wheel!

Emotional Infidelity: It is a misconception that it is less painful than the other forms of infidelity. Noone in this world wants to be associated to misery or lose their faith in love and relationships, nor to get pity/sympathy for the same. We really need to stop normalising the narrative of someone making fun of another's affection and romanticising it. Does not have to be overdramatic or filmy like presented in the songs below, does not matter whether it is a significant other or any other loved one, but someone unneccessarily and knowingly mocking genuine feelings or showing distrust does NOT deserve the other's love!

Note: I am purely commenting on love/relationships based on reality, not assumption. Knowingly hurting someone you claim to love is pathetic.

https://youtu.be/JVUQDE8vLxw?feature=shared

Song: Mujhe Kaise Pata Na Chala

Artist: Meet Bros ft Papon

Lyrics: Kumaar

https://youtu.be/GND-hpSMlFk?feature=shared

Song: Tu Bhi Royega

Artist: Jyotica Tangri

Lyrics: Vivek Kar

https://youtu.be/7mIN0LCbMZ0?feature=shared

Song: Uff

Artist: Shreya Ghoshal

Lyrics: Kumaar

Surprised noone posted these, these were HUGE on Tiktok and Reels once upon a time..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=voFhlwj8ITs

Song: Titliaan

Singer: Afsana Khan

Lyrics & Composer: Jaani

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9j5jQ_M93ec

Song: Bewafa Tera Masoom Chehra

Singer: Rochak Kohli Feat. Jubin Nautiyal

Lyrics: Rashmi Virag

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eY3m3ji1q84

Song: Tu Bhi Sataya Jayega

Singer - Vishal Mishra

Poetry & Lyrics - Vishal Mishra

Theme: The girl realises she's been deceived in love by the boy, who could not be loyal, and she says it’s too late. Self Respect >>> Love

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D1Xr-JFLxik

Song: White Horse

Artist: Taylor Swift

Album: Fearless

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gsdHoBz-q3E

Song: Too Little Too Late

Artist: Jojo

Album: The High Road

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C7aXlkXsl9g

Song: I Wont Apologize

Artist: Selena Gomez

Album: Kiss & Tell

Contd..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J3UjJ4wKLkg

Song: Take a Bow

Artist: Rihanna

Album: Good Girl Gone Bad: Reloaded

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oD21IqtqYoY

Song: Solo

Artist: Demi Lovato

Album: Here We Go Again

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NIRxGC3LXHE

Song: So Over You

Artist: Auburn

Album: Single

**Basically just songs I found on this theme in my 15-year old playlist..I don't know any new ones in English.

Recalled this song for the Pastes, powders and pigments theme (TOTW 33) and realized it fits well here too!

Lipstick on your collar - Connie Francis

Songwriters: George Goehring, Edna Lewis

Where the lipstick is the tell-tale sign of her man being unfaithful

Lipstick on your collar told a tale on you

Lipstick on your collar said you were untrue

Bet your bottom dollar, you and I are through

'Cause lipstick on your collar told a tale on you, yeah

You said it belonged to me, made me stop and think

And then I noticed yours was red, mine was baby pink

Who walked in but Mary Jane, lipstick all a mess

Were you smoochin' my best friend? Guess the answer's yes

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YMlALAaEwfA

Has this been posted?

Song: Delilah

Singer: Tom Jones

Songwriters: Les Reed, Barry Mason

The man finds out his lover has been cheating on him. When he catches her red-handed, she laughs at him. He ends up killing her, locks himself in her apartment and waits for the police to come arrest him.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MIIU9xkGAMs

Originally posted by: Ashley.Tisdale

Has this been posted?

The first page has the list of songs posted that the TM maintains, you can check there. Also, could you post the song lyrics so it’s clear how it fits the theme and credit the songwriter?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=acMtKzTbAAU

I snapped: Who's that dude?

I don't even know his name..

tw: domestic abuse, partner abuse

Song: Love the Way You Lie

Album: Recovery

Artists: Eminem, Rihanna

Released: 2010