Hair dying and skin lightening are similar in the sense that both are about looking more Caucasian or mixed-race. Both are considered more beautiful than what the average Indian has - brown skin, dark eyes and dark hair. Wherever those standards came from, at the end of the day, you still can't demand that people change what they find attractive. Nobody is entitled to be considered beautiful.
Preferences aren't easily changeable and everyone is allowed to marry and be with the type of person they want to be with. People get "rejected" for lots of things - skin color, height, facial features, weight, family wealth and most of those things are not in our control. Everyone wants to be with those they find attractive - that is a the bedrock of romantic relationships.
Even in the western world, without arranged marriages, people considered less attractive get rejected by potential partners all the time. It's a normal fact of life. Do you think a guy that's 5 feet 2 inches has girls lined up at his door? Women are known for being brutal towards short men and "reject" them all the time. That applies to all features for everyone - we all like what we like.
Instead of making demands about how such and such should be considered beautiful, it's better to remove so much focus from beauty itself. Guess what? Everyone is not beautiful and that's okay. Improve yourself in other ways - be a kinder person, spend more time learning, have a brighter warmer personality, etc.
Beauty is not the end all and be all in life. Everyone is not beautiful and will not be considered beautiful regardless of how prejudiced and racist you want to call people who don't like what you want them to like. But that's okay because we should be concentrating on teaching people that there is more to life.
Edited by anonymous39 - 7 years ago
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