Dear Mahira, we'd love to have you in Bollywood, but...

It's so delightful to see Mahira Khan and the very gifted director and my erstwhile friend, Shoaib Mansoor, create a powerful statement against sexual violence and power-misappropation in the film "Verna".

I say "erstwhile friend" because Shoaib Saab was very gracious and cordial to begin with, when I praised him for his stunning debut, "Khuda Ke Liye". Later, he cooled off when things warmed up at the border. I could sense his growing lack of warmth, prompted no doubt, by the growing hostility between the two countries.

I don't blame him. We all need to respect the sovereignty of our country. Art comes later. Which is why Mahira could not enjoy Indian hospitality when her Bollywood film "Raees" released last year. It was sad. And when we spoke on the phone, she had expressed her sadness to me.

Mahira said, "No other actor here in Pakistan has got an opportunity like this ('Raees'). And it fell in my lap, due to whatever hard work that I may have done earlier. I didn't have to look for it. I feel blessed. But at the same time, I feel like that marathon runner who during the last lap -- just before the finishing line -- is made to drop out of the race. There was this feeling when it happened, 'Oh Man, not right now. Now just before the release!'"

And now I see Mahira doing an interview with BBC, poised and articulate, negotiating tricky questions on the violation of human rights in Pakistan, where she said Bollywood was never her priority. I remember Mahira told me with such warmth about her fascination with Bollywood from her childhood, and specially the cinema of Guru Dutt, and how, as a child, she would wait every Thursday for that Bollywood film which she was treated to by her parents .

How could Bollywood not be Mahira's priority, when Pakistan, with due respect, has so little of cinema culture, besides, of course, Shoaib Mansoor. And how many films can he make?

No, Mahira needs Bollywood. And we appreciate and understand her need to be a part of the Indian entertainment industry. But now is not the time. Not when Indian soldiers are being killed on the border, when human rights are being violated and terrorism is being given a free reign in her country.

Mahira may well say, what's the political situation got to do with her? And in a way she is right. The minds and manoeuvres of politicians are beyond our understanding. But still, as I said, we have to consider the acute crisis and the political sensitivities. Art seems trivial when weighed against the loss of human lives at the border.

So we will wait to keep that promise we had made when we spoke after "Raees" and Mahira had said, "We were all like one big family during the making 'Raees'. And I just felt happy connecting with them long-distance. I know we'll celebrate whenever I am able to visit again."

We'll wait for that dawn which Mahira's favourite Indian poet-lyricist Sahir Ladhianvi spoke about in that famous song: "Woh subah kabhi toh aayegi. In kaali sadiyo ke sar se, jab raat kaa aanchal dhalakega, jab dukh ke baadal pighalenge, jab sukh ka sagar chhalkega, jab ambar jhoom ke naachega, jab dharti nagme gaaegi... Woh subah kabhi toh aayegi."

Mahira had said to me, "I do only one film at a time. My first priority is my child. So it's a lot of hard work. But it can done. It's all about choices. Many times I have to let go of good work. Fortunately, the work I've done has worked for me. Yes, I am an anomaly in my country. I hope in the coming years there will be more women like me."

I wait for the dawn when the sound of the morning birds are not shattered by the din of blazing guns and when actors like Mahira and Fawad Khan can just walk into India without having to wait for visas. We wait for that dawn when Mahira can walk through the green channel at the Mumbai airport, her head held high. Being a single mother, the grace with which Mahira conducts her life is inspirational to women on both sides of the border.